Saturday, April 14, 2018

Magic Exists





“Magic exists. Who can doubt it, when there are rainbows and wildflowers, the music of the wind and the silence of the stars? Anyone who has loved has been touched by magic. It is such a simple and such an extraordinary part of the lives we live.” 
Nora Roberts

In my younger days, all I knew about magic came from watching magicians pull out rabbits from their top hats and do intricate card tricks.

It was only when my daughter grew up that she introduced me to the magical world of Harry Potter so imaginatively created by JK Rowling. Sitting in a little attic, with hardly any food to eat, this wonderful wordsmith introduced children and adults to a world of wizards, unicorns, muggles, centaurs, headless ghosts and the game of Quidditch.





“Magic is believing in yourself, if you can do that, you can make anything happen.”
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe





Friday, April 13, 2018

A Little Girl with Big Eyes - Rest in Peace, Asifa!



Those beautiful, bright eyes haunt me, as they look out at the world, a half smile twisting her lips. Eight years old, with everything in life ahead of her, till eight monsters in human guise, put out the light, before they put out the light.



Asifa must have died eight hundred deaths before she finally let go of her tiny body, with a pure heart that shone forth.
Eight men with darkness in their souls triumphed over one tiny soul; some of whom must have children of their own, loved ones whom they cherish
A few without a shred of decency or compunction, maybe whose wives and sisters waited at home, unaware of the barbarity that ran in the veins of their men
Grown men of different ages, including a juvenile, who vandalized the little girl over days, drugging her, torturing her, raping her, tearing her to shreds without a qualm
There were at least two men in uniform whose job it was to hunt down the very men they had turned into.

Eight men who murdered a little life after they had had their fun

The agony does not end there.

Even as death came as a release, more monsters joined the rabble, just so that they could shield the guilty.
The police were paid money, the ministers in power waxed eloquent, reiterating that the rape never happened, the murder did not take place, and that the eight men were good upstanding citizens.



Religion loomed over the case as further lies were bandied about. The little girl was a Muslim, and the innocent men were Hindus. How could they commit such a horrific crime in a temple?
A mob of Hindu lawyers blocked police officers who were trying to enter a courthouse to file charges against the accused.
A spokesman of the ruling party actually scoffed on National television when the anchor asked him if the ministers who had supported the crime would be made to resign.



http://indianexpress.com/article/trending/trending-in-india/renuka-shahane-post-on-rape-unmao-5134186/

What was the purported reason behind Asifa’s rape and murder?

Apparently, it was to dislodge the nomadic Gujjar-Bakarwal community in Rasana village in Kathua district, J&K,  mainly Muslims. There had been numerous clashes between the two communities, and little Asifa turned into a ‘soft target’ in the tensions between them.
The Gujjars were not allowed to bury Asifa in a graveyard which they had been using till then by Hindu right-wing activists who threatened them with violence. Hence, they had to take her body to another graveyard seven miles away.



Earlier, in Unnao, an MP from the ruling party was accused of raping a teenager, leading to the death of her father in police custody. The said Minister was seen strutting around, talking about “lowly people”, confident that he would get away with the crime.
His wife appeared briefly on television, denouncing the victim and shedding copious tears for her husband, who, she claimed, was a decent man being falsely implicated.
 Fortunately, after an indecent interval, the UP government has filed an FIR against the MP.

The ancient sages spoke of Kali Yuga or the Dark Age when human civilization will degenerate and human beings will move away from God. Today, we are in the nadir of our civilization, where sins like avarice, lust and wrath ride roughshod, where people have fallen to such depths of depravity that even little children are not spared from their excesses.


How do we drag ourselves out of this slough of depravity that we have fallen into? It is a long, convoluted way ahead, even longer than the time the law takes to convict criminals, who end up living their natural lives before they are convicted, if ever.

The change needs to begin at home, where mothers and fathers need to take a vow to bring up their sons and daughters to learn respect – respect for one another, respect for all living beings, and respect for the universe and its possessions. 
The change needs to continue in school and college, where teachers need to reinforce the idea of respect along with the education that they impart. In the olden days, Moral Science used to be a subject in its own right, where students were told stories of valour and humaneness, and how to distinguish between good and evil. Some may scoff and say that those classes were a waste of time, but let's put them aside, and think of what William Wordsworth said in 'My Heart Leaps Up".


A man shows signs of what he is going to turn into as an adult. So, it is up to his elders to ensure that he grows up decent and respectful. 

And finally, in the words of Dave Pelzer, "Childhood should be carefree, playing in the sun; not living a nightmare in the darkness of the soul."  
A Child Called 'It'





   

Love is Not Love Which Alters...




It was in high school that we learnt of fourteen-lined poems called sonnets, when we studied Shakespeare and the following sonnet is considered one of his most famous ones.

             LET ME NOT TO THE MARRIAGE OF TRUE MINDS
                                             Sonnet 116

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove.
O no! It is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is not shaken
It is the star to every wand'ring bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom. 
If this be error and upon me prov'd,
I never writ, nor no man ever lov'd.

William Shakespeare


In fact, it is very difficult to go wrong with the Bard's quotes. He said much about love in that inimitable manner of his.







There is no doubt that he was one of the most prolific writers of all times. Many household phrases coined by him have come down into our modern vocabulary.



Thursday, April 12, 2018

Kindness... Mark Twain




"Kindness is a language the deaf can hear and the blind can see."
Mark Twain




This was a quote that resonated within my heart the first time I heard it. After our little daughter was born, my husband and I realized yet another truth that life threw at us. Be kind and do good, and the good comes right back, not only to us, but to our daughter as well. What could be more tempting than that?

Mother Teresa was truly the embodiment of kindness and humanity.

"Kind words are short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless."
Mother Teresa






Tuesday, April 10, 2018

Joy is contagious







When I was growing up, my favourite song was always 'Que Sera Sera' sung by Doris Day. I especially loved the part when she crooned, "Will there be rainbows day after day?" For that is what I imagined joy would be. A day filled with rainbows, toys and friends, with smiles and laughter ringing out. It was then I realized that joy is contagious, and that one smile could spark off many other smiles.

There are so many lovely quotes that symbolize joy.

"Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day."
Henri J.M. Nouwen




Another lesson I learned over the years was to strive and be happy whatever happens.



Today I know for a certainty that joy is not in things; it is within us.


So, always choose joy! :)



Monday, April 9, 2018

I was surrounded by friends... Roman Payne





“I was surrounded by friends, my work was immense, and pleasures were abundant. Life, now, was unfolding before me, constantly and visibly, like the flowers of summer that drop fanlike petals on eternal soil. Overall, I was happiest to be alone; for it was then that I was most aware of what I possessed. Free to look over the rooftops of the city. Happy to be alone in the company of friends, the company of lovers and strangers. Everything, I decided, in this life was pure pleasure.

Roman Payne – Rooftop Soliloquy



It was when I was browsing the Internet for an apt quote starting with the letter 'I' that I came across these beautiful lines by Roman Payne for the first time. The words washed over me like a calming cascade of water, as he spoke of everything in life being pure pleasure, of being surrounded by friends, a concept that I believe in as well. Friends are as essential as the air one breathes. Life becomes so much more vibrant when one has friends to share precious moments with.

Roman Payne is a poet and novelist living in exile in Africa. 'The Wanderess', a word coined by him, is one of his most well-known novels.

I dedicate this post to all the wonderful friends I have made over the years, both real and virtual. They have afforded me much pleasure and if, by chance, there have been rare moments of discord, another quote comes to mind.

"If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured or faraway."
Henry David Thoreau




Sunday, April 8, 2018

Happiness - the art of making a bouquet of those flowers within reach






“Happiness is a butterfly, which when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.”
Nathaniel  Hawthorne

There are so many beautiful quotes on happiness, many of them which talk of not pursuing happiness with desperation, but letting it gently alight on your shoulder. Another quote that is similar to the one above is by Thoreau.



Happiness is unique to every one of us. While some of us rejoice in our belongings, others do so in their family and friends. One of my favourite quotes, when I was growing up, was the one which spoke of happiness being a bouquet of those flowers within reach. 



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